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Keeping Your Children Safe on the Web

girlI have heard several stories over the past 6 months where young children have been exposed to hard core pornography on the internet. This was stuff that they didn’t go looking for. It came searching for them like some kind of wicked, sleazy stalker in the dark. Those parents were devastated and left trying to repair their little ones’ innocence and all of them wishing it had never happened.

These stories have left me very concerned that the world is moving faster than many parents are prepared for.

If this has happened to you and your child, please know that Jesus can and will restore that child’s innocence when you pray! Talk with your child and work through all of their questions. Then pray with them, and for them, and you will be amazed at how easily Jesus can wipe their little soul clean for a new start. The last thing you should do is start down a self-accusational road that makes you feel condemned and keeps you from ministering effectively to your child.

So, I want to address this in as helpful way as I can. I don’t normally write blog posts that are this long or this detailed, but I really believe this is an important and timely issue. If you have young children, or have friends that do, please take the time to read through this and pass it on.
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Capes, Faith, and Divine Imagination

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Just a few days ago, my two youngest children decided to be superheroes.

They saw no reason why they should be limited by gravity and human physical limitations.  All they needed to overcome physics were beach towels.  They came running up to me, towels in hand, and asked me to secure the towels around their necks.  They had already tried stuffing the towels in their collars, but the towels-turned-capes kept falling out.  And we all know that a superhero cannot have his cape falling out in mid flight.

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The Jesus Storybook Bible

jesus_storybook_bibleHeather and I have been looking for a good kids Bible for a long time.  We’ve read lots of them, and we have owned a few as well.  It’s frustrating to see a lot of what is on the shelf at the christian bookstore in the “Children’s Bible” section. After perusing tons of them and I’ve been disappointed by most of for various reasons.  For example, I’ve read at least two of those “Bibles” that fully exclude the cross altogether.  Can it seriously be called the Bible without the cross?

I’ve also noticed a general trend to sanitize some of the more intense areas of scripture for the kids.  Sin gets minimized.  The price paid for sin gets minimized.  Christ’s suffering on the cross, etc.  The result is that our kids get moralistic tales, sort of a Hebrew version of Aesop’s Fables.  We lose Jesus as the Hero, Rescuer and King of humanity.

And if you do find one that has decent content, it’s written like a textbook and the only thing your kids learn from it is that the Bible is boring and is for adults only.  That’s not exactly what we are going for here!

Recently Heather’s sister recommended a Bible they have been using with their kids.  It’s called, “The Jesus Storybook Bible“.  We picked it up and read some of it together in the Barnes & Noble and it nearly brought me to tears in the isle.  It’s written by Sally Lloyd-Jones and it is masterful.  She has a beautiful instinct for how “each story whispers His name” from Genesis to Revelation.  It is so doctrinally rich, I call it a commentary for kids.  I’m not kidding.  It really does read that way.  She has a whimsical way of focussing each story onto Jesus and bringing out the essential elements of the story that will build a solid doctrinal understanding.

But, don’t let the word “doctrinal” and “commentary” fool you.  Her writing is beautiful and captivating for both the kids and the parent.  It’s not sing songy like so many others, but it has a wonderful whimsy and rhythm to it that is a lot of fun.

The illustrations are increadible as well.  They were created by Jago, and they really match the playful and rich writing of Lloyd-Jones.

This is a real gem!  I recommend anyone getting it, even if only for yourself. You might have to read it in private for fear of what your friends will think of an adult reading a children’s Bible, but I think it’s a worthy price to pay.  ;-)  I find myself picking it up all the time and reading it.  I usually keep reading after my kids have gone to bed because it really is that well done.

“I would urge not just families with young children to get this book, but every Christian–from pew warmers, to ministry leaders, seminarians and even theologians! Sally Lloyd-Jones has captured the heart of what it means to find Christ in all the scriptures, and has made clear even to little children that all God’s revelation has been about Jesus from the beginning–a truth not all that commonly recognized even among the very learned.” ~ Dr. Timothy Keller

Here’s a link to an excerpt from the book along with the illustrations.

Why Mothers Get a Day

Showing this video this morning in honor of Moms everywhere.

CALL YOUR MOM TODAY. She’s earned it.

Why I’m Mad at Miley Cyrus

Mylie and Billy RayMy oldest daughter is INTO Hannah Montana. She has the CD. She watches the show. I’ve been cool with it all up until now. Up until now, the whole Hannah Montana thing has been innocent, possibly even helpful. She’s known for being modest, family oriented and a good role model… things all too rare these days.

So why did I just ban her in my house? Why did I just make my daughter cry because she is too innocent to understand?

This week, Miley Cyrus posed for some pictures for Vanity Fair. The pictures were edgier (and sexier) than anything she has done up to this point. In one of these pictures she was topless, covered in the front by a white bed sheet (not pictured here… trying to keep the pervs off my site). Certainly not anything more immodest than what we all see every day at the magazine stand. But for a 15 year old girl that has been billing herself as a modest, God-fearing role model to my 6 year old daughter, I have to raise a a very loud and very angry objection.

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