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What is Your Source?

// May 21st, 2008 // 4 Comments » // Christian Living, Family Life

Ben preached a great sermon on Mother’s Day. It wasn’t exactly related to mothers (although he did tie it into mothers a few times :) because it applies to every person who is a Christian. The thing that got him thinking about the sermon was a conversation we had had earlier that week. We were talking about our children and their need for discipline and love in their lives. We were commenting on the apparent lack of response on their part and the way we had really slacked off of clear, concise, consistent discipline. In talking we realized that too often we make the offense be about something other then the heart issue. It becomes something that offends us or our “rules”.

The kids can pretty quickly pick up on what the rules are and follow those in order to protect themselves from further discipline. What we realized in the way we had begun to approach these issues was that we were creating children who were very good at figuring out the rules and following them to make their lives easier, but we did not have children who were facing their sin and dealing with it in the appropriate way.

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The Lakeland Revival

// May 15th, 2008 // 9 Comments » // Church Life, General, Music

The revival happening in Lakeland, Florida with Todd Bentley is getting a lot of attention. I think it would be interesting to open a discussion on the topic here. We have a pretty diverse readership here with a wide variety of church histories.

I haven’t attended the meetings in Florida, so I can’t give a complete opinion. However, I have watched a couple of the meetings on TV. If you have no idea what I’m talking about, YouTube is a good place to start. There are a few clips there and more are being added all the time.

Lee Grady, editor at Charisma Magazine, has written a fair and balanced article on the topic. He has spent some time in those meetings and offers some words of caution that I think are accurate.

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Why I’m Mad at Miley Cyrus

// April 29th, 2008 // 32 Comments » // Family Life

Mylie and Billy RayMy oldest daughter is INTO Hannah Montana. She has the CD. She watches the show. I’ve been cool with it all up until now. Up until now, the whole Hannah Montana thing has been innocent, possibly even helpful. She’s known for being modest, family oriented and a good role model… things all too rare these days.

So why did I just ban her in my house? Why did I just make my daughter cry because she is too innocent to understand?

This week, Miley Cyrus posed for some pictures for Vanity Fair. The pictures were edgier (and sexier) than anything she has done up to this point. In one of these pictures she was topless, covered in the front by a white bed sheet (not pictured here… trying to keep the pervs off my site). Certainly not anything more immodest than what we all see every day at the magazine stand. But for a 15 year old girl that has been billing herself as a modest, God-fearing role model to my 6 year old daughter, I have to raise a a very loud and very angry objection.

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He Knows What We Need

// January 3rd, 2008 // 5 Comments » // Christian Living, Family Life

Growing up, I always learned that God will give us what we need even when we don’t know it. I have heard it over and over, but don’t always recognize it when I experience it. We had one of those times this Christmas.

Kaitlyn woke up two days before Christmas with a stomach bug. She was sick all night and into the morning Christmas Eve. We had decided that if she didn’t get sick after the morning then we would go on with our plans and head to Ben’s family’s house. She seemed to be doing better, but then very soon after our cut off point she threw up again. We knew that we would not be going to share Christmas with Ben’s family and that we would be going it alone this year. We have never done that before, so I was initially very sad. I’m used to a house full of people and laughter and food. What would it be like with just 5 of us? I couldn’t fathom it!

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Circumcision and Christmas Carols

// December 20th, 2007 // 11 Comments » // Family Life, Humor

Happenin Christmas CarolsI grew up in the middle of charismania. If you know anything about charismatics, you know that they don’t like to do anything the way it has always been done before. In fact, they don’t like to do things even the way they themselves did it last time. We didn’t believe in tradition, unless we “felt led” to believe in it. And then it wasn’t tradition, it was sovereignty.

Now, don’t get me wrong. My spiritual heritage is deep. I speak in tongues, prophesy, and believe that the gifts mentioned in I Corinthians 12:7-10 and elsewhere have not ceased. But I think it’s been long enough now for all of us to admit that there were some pretty cooky things we did as charismaniacs. We should laugh. I sure do.

One of the ways this manifested itself was in how we did Christmas caroling. I was about 12 at the time. Not sure of the age, but it feels like 12 when I remember it. A group of us gathered at the church to pray before going out. We huddled together like Gideon and his ragtag band of soldiers preparing to assault the gates of hell. Only they were armed with swords. We had Christmas carols and tambourines.

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