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Enjoy What Makes Life Beautiful

// March 8th, 2010 // 5 Comments » // Christian Living

I preached on keeping the Sabbath this weekend and studying the topic was a loud reminder to me of the importance of getting off the crazy carnival ride we’re on most of the time to take a breath.  The importance of weekly rest goes all the way back to creation and the nature and character of God.  God stopped to take in and enjoy all that He had done during the first 6 days of creation.  His greatness didn’t diminish when He rested.  His glory doesn’t come only from doing but also from His being.

I think most Americans are taught the opposite.  A strong work ethic is equated with never having to rest.  Taking time for solitude, reflection, and rest makes us feel a little guilty, even apologetic.  That’s insane!  God made us with finite amounts of emotional and physical energy.  Rest is a necessary part of life and serves to remind us of our weakness and dependence on God to supply our needs.

The point of Sabbath goes back to the cross and Jesus.  You are reminded that you are accepted not because of what you DO but because of what Jesus DID. Your value doesn’t diminish because you are not “doing”.

Maybe you need to take some time off where you are completely unavailable so that you can discover that the universe did not tear in half because, lo and behold, the world and all that is in it does not revolve around you and your god-like abilities to hold it together.

Unplug from the collective.  Get out, smell some unprocessed air, find solitude, find friends, reconnect with all the things that make your life beautiful.

Excellence or Authenticity?

// February 27th, 2010 // No Comments » // Church Life

I’ve written a lot about the importance of excellence in the Church on this blog before.  I believe it’s important to do things in a way that communicates that we value what we are doing, we value those we are ministering to, and most of all we value the God we are worshiping.  However, I also believe that there is a higher ideal that we must pursue without forsaking excellence.

Authenticity.

Boiled down to it’s root, authenticity is about truthfullness.  It’s about not concealing reality behind a veil of mystery and false piety.  It’s about letting the seams show a little as if to say, “this was made by human beings, not by a machine.”  It’s about celebrating the risk over the result to the point of being willing to celebrate failure as a true sign of a big risk that has been courageously taken.  This is not something we traditionally do well.

The church growth and seeker sensitive movement has produced mixed results.  Churches have certainly grown, which I believe is almost always a good thing.  However, I think we’re all in danger of placing pragmatism and professionalism in a place of greater importance than Spirit-led, Christ-centered authenticity.

Here’s the thing:  our culture values authenticity over spit-polish any day.  I think we are about to see a wave of reactions against the auto-tuned, over produced, over sold, over hyped mainstream music and film industry.  I think people are sick of the trite and begging for the real.  And isn’t this something Jesus-followers should be experts in?  We of all people should get the fact that we are all broken, that the greatness in mankind is only an imperfect image of a perfect God.  Aren’t we the ones that get to “boast in our weakness”?

Several months ago during our Sunday morning worship set a mistake was made.  Our guitarist (who rarely makes mistakes on his instrument) began the song in the wrong key.  It was awful and impossible to ignore.  Most people would have made an adjustment and tried to stumble forward acting like it had never happened.  But, instead of doing that he stopped playing, waved at the congregation and said something like “Thanks very much, everyone!  That was me over here.”  It was a beautiful moment.

What was beautiful about it was that a sigh of relief went through the room as if to say, “Oh, thank God.  We can make mistakes here and it’s ok.”

I find that in most churches the opposite is true.  Performance mistakes are highly criticized and covered up.  Sermons are memorized, worship is auto-tuned, every moment choreographed.  No mistakes.

But “no mistakes” isn’t realistic for most of us and we need to see that reflected in our churches.

I believe that at some point every leader, and every local church is faced with a decision.  They will have to make a choice between becoming more excellent and polished or becoming more authentic and real.  At some point, one will directly compete with the other.

Again, this doesn’t mean that we can say excellence doesn’t matter because it really, really does.  It just isn’t the ultimate value because in the end it’s authenticity that will connect with people.

Incidentally, this gives the small church (with a small budget, and few people resources) some hope.  You can overcome a LOT of in-excellence with extra doses of authenticity.  If you don’t have a good worship band, or your building is old, or your preaching is boring, you can overcome a lot of those things by hammering authenticity and relationships.

People will say, “Yeah his preaching isn’t that great but he’s so REAL.” or “The music isn’t that great, but there is so much love and acceptance there that I can’t help but go back every week.”  When people say those kinds of things they are making value statements.  They are saying that excellence is important to them, but what really matters MOST to them is authenticity.  Authenticity doesn’t require money.  It doesn’t require a lot of people.  All it requires is grace, which is the one thing the Church has in great supply no matter how small.

You Have Never Met a Mere Mortal

// February 9th, 2010 // No Comments » // Christian Living

I first came across this quote listening to John Piper teaching about C.S. Lewis.  I have been pondering lately the idea of discipleship in the Bible and how that relates to the mission of the Church.  In doing so, I’ve come to realize that so much of the effort spent in our lives (and in our churches) is wasted on things that are good, but not best.

People matter.  Jesus thought so.  So much so, that He died for them, offers to occupy their hearts, and then places the hope of the world on their shoulders as the Church.  People.  Really. Matter.

It is a serious thing to…remember that the dullest and most uninteresting person you talk to may one day be a creature which, if you saw it now, you would be strongly tempted to worship, or else a horror and a corruption such as you now meet, if at all, only in a nightmare. All day long we are, in some degree, helping each other to one or other of these destinations. It is in the light of these overwhelming possibilities, it is with the awe and the circumspection proper to them, that we should conduct all our dealings with one another… all friendships, all loves, all play, all politics.

There are no ordinary people.

You have never talked to a mere mortal.

Nations, cultures, arts, civilization—these are mortal, and their life is to ours as the life of a gnat. But it is immortals whom we joke with, work with, marry, snub, and exploit—immortal horrors or everlasting splendors.

This does not mean that we are to be perpetually solemn. We must play. But our merriment must be of that kind (and it is, in fact, the merriest kind) which exists between people who have, from the outset, taken each other seriously—no flippancy, no superiority, no presumption.

And our charity must be a real and costly love, with deep feeling for the sins in spite of which we love the sinner—no mere tolerance or indulgence which parodies love as flippancy parodies merriment. Next to…[God Himself], your neighbor is the holiest object presented to your senses. If he is your Christian neighbor he is holy in almost the same way, for in him also Christ—the glorifier and the glorified, Glory Himself, is truly hidden. ~C.S. Lewis

How does this truth change the way we view and treat the people around us? I think it changes everything.

Haiti and Other Acts of God

// January 19th, 2010 // 4 Comments » // Christian Living

The world stood agast this week as a massive earthquake shook the tiny country of Haiti down to rubble.  The death toll rises daily, unrelentingly reminding the world of its own frail mortality.  As of the writing of this article, the EU reports an estimated 200,000 people dead and over 1.5 million rendered homeless.  This number is likely to rise due to lack of medical attention and the violence that has erupted in this unstable nation.

By all accounts, this is a disaster.  A tragedy.  Some have used the phrase, “an act of God”.  My insurance company uses that phrase to refer to bad things that happen to my car that cannot be blamed on anyone.  They just happened, they’re bad, so we call them “acts of God”.

In times like this, everyone wants to know who to blame.  They want to know who they can shake their fist at, and hopefully extract their pound of flesh from in the name of closure.  When there is another individual to blame, we punish them in our justice system.  When it’s another country to blame, we punish them with economic sanctions and possibly go to war.  But what are we to do with an act of God?

When it comes to this problem, most of us know where the ditches are on each side of the road that we have to avoid.  On one side is the ditch that says, “It’s the victim’s fault.”  On the other side is the ditch that says, “God did evil.”  We know we have to stay out of the ditches, but we still can’t figure out how to keep this bus in the lane, so we bump back and forth until the moment passes and our lives can continue blissfully.

I believe that God is in control, that He has not left us on our own.  I also believe that He is good.  Sometimes, I can’t put those two ideas perfectly together in a way that pulls in all the loose threads.  It’s in those moments that I have to be willing to confess that I do not understand.  That, like Job in the Bible, I am broken and crushed but I will still choose to trust in my great and sovereign God.

What’s really happening is that we want life to fit in neat and comfortable boxes.  We expect our God to be easily explained.  We want a religion that is manageable.  We want a God that is tame.  And we want a life that is predictable in a world that always makes sense.

God never promised us any of these things.  In fact, Jesus told us that there would be times when the cross we bear would be a heavy burden.  He also promised that He would be with us to the end.  He promised us that He would bring His shalom, peace that makes everything right and undoes all the injustice that this world has seen.

Maybe we should adjust our terminology.  Maybe the next time the sun sets and the sky turns 100 shades of orange and red we should call that an act of God.  Maybe the next time a child is born healthy we should call it an act of God.  Maybe the next time someone falls in love with their soulmate we should call it an act of God.  Maybe we should strive to replace our cynicism with wonder, our doubt with faith, and our weariness with everlasting hope.

Hope requires courage.  Courage to believe that Jesus is who He said He is.  That he has not left us, even when the world has shaken and we’ve been crushed in the rubble.

Share your thoughts in the comments.  I’d love to hear from you.

Didn’t Enjoy a Christian Movie? Permission Granted.

// January 11th, 2010 // 4 Comments » // Christian Living, Movies

I have a staggering confession to make.  I didn’t enjoy the movie Fireproof.  I wasn’t entertained or particularly moved by it.  I didn’t cry.  That’s saying a lot because I recently got misty-eyed at the end of a re-run episode of Full House.  Kirk Cameron didn’t revolutionize my marriage or inspire me to become a fire chief who makes good chili and inspires his men to be soft-spoken and wear dockers pants.  However, his idea of pounding the outside trash can with a bat is a good one that I plan to implement soon.  Looked like fun.  But, seriously, if my house was on fire and Mike Seaver showed up to lead the effort in saving my cigar collection from smoking itself, I would be more than a little concerned.  I’d probably ask him to call in a favor to Kurt Russell for assistance.

“Didn’t this movie come out a while ago?  Why are you talking about it now?”  Everyone that has asked me if I liked the movie has gotten some kind of awkward response like, “I thought it was pretty good.  I mean, it could have been a lot better but considering how this church gave up so much and all those volunteers worked so hard, it’s amazing.”

Sigh.  It’s taken me this long to get up the gumption to come out of the closet on this.

You see, the problem is that I watched the extras on the DVD.  You know, all the behind the scenes footage of regular church folk praying before each scene in the movie, volunteering their time, believing in the project, eating Chick-fil-A, doing morning devotionals, all while Third Day plays softly in the background.  It’s touching.  In fact, I was far more moved by the behind the scenes stuff than I was by anything in the movie itself.  But then I was confused.  The rules of criticism are different between a movie you pay for, and ministry you receive.  Is it ok for me to say that I really didn’t like a Christian movie?

Y E S !

If movies made by Christians are going to get better, they need to be held to the same critique as other films in the marketplace.  They need to be treated the same.  In my opinion, it’s patronizing to the good people that made the movie to pat the movie on the head and say, “For a Christian, you’re ok.  Bless your heart.”

Now, I know that many people really liked it.  They say that Kirk is a sexy-in-a-christian-kind-of-way male lead.  They found the plot riveting.  MANY MANY people say that it (and the accompanying devotional study) helped their marriages.  That’s awesome.  I’m not saying we should NOT like Christian movies.  That would be like someone saying that all Ninja movies are bad.  That would be crazy because any time throwing stars are involved, great entertainment is sure to follow.

Now THAT’s an idea.  A christian ninja movie.  Does James Caviezel know karate?  I bet he’s available.