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	<title>Comments on: Stuff No One Told Me Before I Became a Pastor</title>
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	<description>living life with eyes wide open</description>
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		<title>By: ded</title>
		<link>http://www.bencotten.net/2009/03/26/stuff-no-one-told-me-before-i-became-a-pastor/comment-page-1/#comment-2036</link>
		<dc:creator>ded</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Mar 2009 18:26:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>uh...that would be compliments. Complements are two angles that form a 90 degree angle. Or when a particular wine is a complement to a particular food, etc. (Just had to teach this, this week and I had to look it up.) 
 
I&#039;m glad you received some encouraging words!! You don&#039;t have to fish for them to appreciate them. I know you work hard because you care, that matters more than occasionally using a wrong word. Is that a prickly subject? Let hindsight help you, but mistakes are all part of the living. It can be any other way or what would you need your gut for anyway? </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>uh&#8230;that would be compliments. Complements are two angles that form a 90 degree angle. Or when a particular wine is a complement to a particular food, etc. (Just had to teach this, this week and I had to look it up.) </p>
<p>I&#039;m glad you received some encouraging words!! You don&#039;t have to fish for them to appreciate them. I know you work hard because you care, that matters more than occasionally using a wrong word. Is that a prickly subject? Let hindsight help you, but mistakes are all part of the living. It can be any other way or what would you need your gut for anyway?</p>
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		<title>By: Ben Cotten</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben Cotten</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Mar 2009 15:35:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the kind words.  I swear I didn&#039;t write this post to solicit complements! 
 
Being pastor at KCC is deeply satisfying and has been very much a joyful thing.  I hope my self-deprecating, ironic tone didn&#039;t come across the wrong way... </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the kind words.  I swear I didn&#039;t write this post to solicit complements! </p>
<p>Being pastor at KCC is deeply satisfying and has been very much a joyful thing.  I hope my self-deprecating, ironic tone didn&#039;t come across the wrong way&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Los Esposo</title>
		<link>http://www.bencotten.net/2009/03/26/stuff-no-one-told-me-before-i-became-a-pastor/comment-page-1/#comment-2034</link>
		<dc:creator>Los Esposo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Mar 2009 02:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dang Jedi mind tricks!!!!!!!! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dang Jedi mind tricks!!!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Priscilla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Priscilla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 18:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your honesty and transparency, especially as a pastor, is what makes you a good one!  You will continue to make mistakes, every one of us does, but if you continue to have God as your leader and guide, you&#039;ll do fine.  And yes, Ben, not everyone will like you, but that&#039;s not why God called you to KCC.  :-)   
 
P.S.  You also have a wonderful family!! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your honesty and transparency, especially as a pastor, is what makes you a good one!  You will continue to make mistakes, every one of us does, but if you continue to have God as your leader and guide, you&#039;ll do fine.  And yes, Ben, not everyone will like you, but that&#039;s not why God called you to KCC.  :-)   </p>
<p>P.S.  You also have a wonderful family!!</p>
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		<title>By: Eileen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eileen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 11:30:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I, too, think you are doing a great job!  But  when my daughter&#039;s the bride, pleeeease don&#039;t forget her name!!   </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I, too, think you are doing a great job!  But  when my daughter&#039;s the bride, pleeeease don&#039;t forget her name!!</p>
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		<title>By: Sabrina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sabrina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 06:25:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description> I think you are doing a great job! It&#039;s good to hear that I am not the only one with the &quot;foot in mouth disease&quot;.  :)  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you are doing a great job! It&#039;s good to hear that I am not the only one with the &quot;foot in mouth disease&quot;.  :)</p>
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